Like many of you, I've suffered the pain of other's actions many a time. Flawed people who have flawed intentions leaving nasty marks on my life. For me, giving people a place in my life has become an honor. Not to sound crass but I am rather selective over whom I allow and who I do not allow in my world . And some I allow but keep at a safe distance. Truth be told, I don't know if this is a Godly approach or just a defense mechanism but because I've been hurt many times before it's become necessary for me to weed out those who add no value in my life. As I'm realizing, many people I know have been there done that too. But one thing is troubling me...lately I've seen many a facebook post about how God puts people in our lives for a reason and sometimes that reason is to hurt us. Like this one for example: Honestly I disagree. While some relationships are God given others are by choice. And even...
Up front and honest confessions of this gal's sinful heart